How to Use Lube (Properly) – A Personal Lubricant Guide for Beginners

The small but mighty lube delivers big when it comes to better sex.

Lubricants come in all shapes, sizes, and even flavours! Whether you're looking to enhance pleasure, ease discomfort, or just spice things up, lube is your bedroom bestie. If you're new to it—or just confused by all the options—this guide will help you find the perfect match.

💦 What is Lubricant?

Lube is a silky gel or liquid you apply to intimate areas to increase pleasure and reduce friction. 

Naturally, for women, the body can produce lubrication during arousal, but occasionally things like stress, hormones, menopause or medication can reduce that moisture.

That’s where lube steps in to save the day (and the night) and, more importantly, enhance sexual experiences for all parties. 

✨ Why Use Lube?

Here’s what lube can do for you

• Make the build-up to sex more arousing
• Create a seamless transition from foreplay to penetration
• Boost comfort and pleasure during vaginal or anal sex
• Level up your toy play (yes, apply it to toys too!)
• Make things way more comfortable for those with vaginal dryness!
  

❓How to use Lube (Step-by-Step)

Whether you're using lube during sex, with a toy, or solo — applying it the right way makes all the difference.

Start with clean, dry hands and squeeze a small amount of lube onto your fingertips — a little goes a long way.

Gently apply it to yourself, your partner, or your toy, focusing on areas where friction might occur. If you're using a condom or sex toy, apply the lube directly onto the surface before use. Add more as needed to keep things smooth and comfortable (reapplying is normal)

The goal is to reduce friction and increase pleasure, so listen to your body and use what feels right.

🧴 What Type of Lube Should I Use?

Feeling overwhelmed by all the choices? You’re not alone.

From water-based to silicone, flavoured to warming—there’s a lube for every mood and moment. Some are designed for sensitive skin, others for extra glide or even tingling sensations. You can explore different types based on your preferences or the kind of play you’re into.

Top tip: If you’re not sure where to start, go with a simple, high-quality water-based lube like Lulalube. It’s safe, smooth, and condom-compatible.

🔥 Is Lube Safe for Anal Sex?

Absolutely—and in fact, it’s essential. The anus doesn’t naturally produce lubrication, so using lube is a must for comfort and safety.

Want more info? Check out our Beginner’s Guide to Anal Play to ease in with confidence.

🛡️ Can I Use Lube with Condoms?

Yes—but check the label first. Some lubes (especially oil-based ones) can break down latex. Luckily, Lulalube is condom-safe, so you can glide away without worry.

💬 Lube Q&A: Your Juicy Questions Answered

Is lube safe to swallow?
Most lubes are safe for oral sex in small amounts, especially those that are flavoured. Just remember—they’re not food, so don’t chug them!

How much lube should I use?
Start small—just a fingertip amount—and build up if needed. You can always add more depending on your mood (or the moment 👀).

Can lube be used for massage, too?
Yep! Some lubes double up as massage gels. Light a candle, pour a glass of wine, and give your partner a sensual back or body rub.

How long does lube last once opened?
It depends on the formula, but most expire within 1 to 3 years. For Lulalube, we recommend using it within 12 months of opening—so if it’s been sitting in your drawer for longer, it might be time to treat yourself to a fresh bottle.

💗 Final Thoughts

Using lube is one of the easiest ways to make sex smoother, safer, and so much more satisfying. Whether you're exploring solo, with a partner, or with toys—don’t be shy, give it a try.

Ready to upgrade your pleasure? Shop Lulalube now.